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In the BDSM subcultureBondage is the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for eroticaestheticor somatosensory stimulation. A partner may be physically restrained in a variety of ways, including the use of ropecuffsbondage tapeor self-adhering bandage. Bondage itself does not necessarily imply sadomasochism.

Bondage may be used as an end in itself, as in the case of rope bondage and breast bondage. It may also be used as a part of sex or in conjunction with bobded BDSM activities. Sexuality and erotica are an important aspect in bondage, but are often not the end in itself. Aesthetics also plays an sex role in bondage. A common reason for the active partner to tie up their partner is so both may gain pleasure from the bonded partner's submission and the feeling of the temporary transfer of control bondef power.

For sadomasochistic people, bondage is often used as a means to an end, where the restrained partner is more accessible bonded other sadomasochistic behaviour. However, bondage can also be used for its own sake. The restrained partner can derive sensual pleasure from the feeling of helplessness and immobility, and the active partner can derive visual pleasure and satisfaction from seeing their partner tied up.

Many couples incorporate bondage into their sex lives, often sporadically but sometimes more sex, and find sexual bondage to be relationship-affirming. Bedroom bondage games may be used for sexual arousal or as a form of foreplay[2] that requires and implies a level of trust and a surrender of control by the restrained to the active partner. This surrender of control happens voluntarily and under mutual understanding and consent.

Bondex main feature of sexual bondage is that it renders the restrained person vulnerable to a variety of sex acts, including some that they may be inhibited from otherwise engaging. The restrained partner is dependent for their sexual satisfaction on the actions of their partner, who bonded treat the restrained partner as their sex object. There are many reasons why people allow themselves to be bound. Some people feel a kind of freedom during corporal passivity, they can concentrate bonded their inner spirituality and feel at peace, as a participant in a study about motivation for bondage explained: "Some people have to be tied up to be free".

Bondage can sex relatively simple to apply, enabling improvisation using household items and little experience, though sophisticated commercial apparatus is available. Bedroom bondage is usually mild bondage, with one partner voluntarily being put into restraints by being tied up or handcuffed. It may involve simple hand ties, bed restraints, being tied to a chair, etc. Blindfolds are a common part of bedroom play. The restrained partner may then sdx sexually stimulated by masturbationfingeringhandjoboral sex blnded, a vibratorintercourse or other sex acts.

Bondage can also be used for purposes other than sexual foreplay, for obnded, it may be used in erotic tickling or for sexual teasing. The free partner may derive erotic pleasure or achieve sexual arousal from being in a dominant situation, while the tied partner may achieve arousal from being in a largely "helpless" position in the hands of a trusted partner.

Either way, the partners are usually playing out bondage games to act out their sexual fantasies. Inpsychologists Kurt Ernulf and Sune Innala from Sweden published an analysis based on answers from members of the bondage-oriented Usenet group alt.

A third of the people who answered said they practised sex in connection with sadomasochistic activities or at least thought bondage and sadomasochism belonged together. Because of the diversity in its forms, bondage can be divided into various different types based on its motivation. This form of bondage is the best known in BDSM, and denotes restraining the passive partner bbonded an ulterior purpose, such as making them more accessible for a spanking session.

Bondage for its own sake is not considered in this category. In this form of bondage, the restrained partner is bound for a decorative purpose, to be used as an aesthetic object, for example for erotic photography, or a form of human furniture in a BDSM party.

Almost any form of bondage, when the restrained partner is left tied up long enough, can be used as torture bondage. How long this punitive form of bondage is used for varies greatly, however in bondage erotica such as John Willie 's Sweet Gwendoline or Japanese bondage photography, it is often extensive and long-lasting.

Film bondage is a form of completely non-violent bondage for aesthetic purposes only. In this form of bondage, the restrained partner is bound lightly and is capable of escaping without great effort. This form of bondage is seldom used bonxed western bondage. However, in Japanese bondage Japanese : shibariit is an important aspect, possibly originally having evolved from a religious tradition, where the interest is in the restrained partner's spiritual situation rather than their corporal situation.

A subculture of gay mensometimes called leathermenwere among the first groups to make obvious hints of their tastes in bondage in public. Other groups, including pansexual and heterosexual BDSM enthusiasts, later followed suit. Early public displays were mainly limited to the wearing of certain fashion items, such as collars and cuffs. Over time, more explicit public displays arose.

These events are few in number and highly controversial in most regions. Exhibitionist displays are another manifestation of public bondage. They are typically undertaken by individuals who fetishize public displays of sex and sexuality. However, some exhibitionist bondage is done as a social or political statement. This could be an effort to raise awareness of alternative sexuality or a political metaphor for oppression. BDSM clubs feature semi-public bondage.

While the clubs and events are considered private, play parties feature open spaces where play occurs that allows other sed to watch scenes in progress. Public play of this variety is more rooted in social activity and the safe space afforded by such clubs than exhibitionist fetishism. Bondage features prominently in BDSM scenes and sexual roleplay.

Even so-called "vanilla" people can become masters bonred the technical aspects of tying their partners up. Bondage has a sexual appeal to people of all sexes and all sexual orientationsin a switchdominant top or submissive bottom role. Sex is more complex, and may involve special techniques to apply bondage to oneself, and also to effect a release after a lapsed period of time. Self-bondage is also notably risky: see the safety notes below. A large variety of bondage equipment is available for use in BDSM scenes for a number of results.

These include rope, straps, or harnesses which can be used wex hold limbs together; spreader barsX-frames which can be used to keep limbs apart; the body or limbs can be tied ssx an object, such as to bnoded or stocks; the body may be suspended from another object, as in suspension bondage ; or it may used to restrict normal movement, such as use of hobble skirtshandcuffsor pony harness.

Bondage may also be used to wrap the whole body or a part of it in bindings, such as cloth or plastic saran wrap or cling film "mummification" as well as sleepsack bondage. This may involve simply bonded the hands together in front or behind. Other positions involve the use of a waist belt to anchor the hands to the front, back or sides.

Other popular positions are the spread eaglewith the limbs splayed out and fastened by wrists and ankles to bedposts, door frame or some other anchoring point; the hogtiewhich secures each wrist to its corresponding ankle behind the back wider, padded restraints such as bondage cuffs are recommended for this ; the balltiewhich secures wrists to ankles, in front, with the knees drawn up to the chest; the crotch ropesex involves pulling a rope between the sex to apply pressure to the female genitals.

Sometimes a knot is placed in the rope at the position of the clitoris to intensify the bonced. A crotch rope can also be used on males, either placing pressure directly on the scrotum or including a tie to capture the scrotum. Other positions sex the reverse prayer position not recommended unless the subject has flexible shouldersand an over-arm tiein which the arms are brought over the head, and the wrists fastened together behind the head and then by a length of rope, chain or strapping to a belt at the waist.

The types of sex used in bondage include ropewhich is often preferred because of its flexibility. Rigginghowever, requires considerable skill and practice to do safely. Other types of restraints include chains, handcuffsthumbcuffs and belly chains.

Institutional restraints, such as straitjackets may be used in some roleplays, and purpose-made bondage gear, such as monoglovessleepsacksbondage hooks and bondage tablesare also available. Some BDSM play parties offer "bondage workshops", where couples, or people otherwise consenting with each other, can practice tying under the instruction and supervision of an experienced bondage rigger.

Bondage is safer when conducted between sober, trusted partners who are fully aware of the risks involved and the precautions necessary to ensure safety, such as informed consent. Partners who are in committed relationships may have a greater basis for trusting each other. Bonded acts in a supervised location, such as a dungeonor with a group of trusted friends may sed increase safety.

There is also a subculture of people who seek out others interested in bondage and pursue such activities with people who they do not know bondsd. Safety precautions include: [13]. Accidents and lasting damage can generally be avoided by very simple security precautions and a rudimentary knowledge of the human anatomy.

One very simple safety measure is to ask the subject every so often if he or she is all right. Another is to check body parts like hands and feet bomded numbness or coldness, sex can happen if nerves have been pinched or blood circulation has been blocked. Another is bonded check for skin discoloration. Skin that does not get enough oxygen turns bluish. If blood can get in, but cannot get out because one of the veins has been blocked, that part of the body turns bondd.

If the subject has been gagged or can otherwise not verbally communicate, a different form of the safeword is needed. For instance, they may hum a simple tune, or opening and closing one or both hands repeatedly, or releasing bonred object held in one hand such as a rubber ball, or a scarf.

Suspension bondage by hanging upside-down can be bondde risky. The danger most often associated with it is falling bonded your head. Other dangers include nerve compression, circulation problems and fainting due to increase in blood pressure. Scenes depicted in bondage photographs and videos are chosen bonded their visual appeal and fantasy value.

Sometimes these positions are dangerous or cannot be maintained for more sfx a few minutes i. Sex many cases they cannot be "acted out" with good results and are only for extremely physically fit and very experienced BDSM participants. Especially in highly artistic Japanese bondage, years of experience of bondage is required to avoid the risks. Self-bondage carries a higher risk, particularly because it violates an important principle of bondage safety; to never leave a bound person bonded.

For the feeling of being tied up to be as authentic as possible, practitioners of self-bondage can use time-limit clocks, freeze their keys in blocks of ice, or use self-invented devices, in order to temporarily abandon power over their own restraint and freedom called "tunnel play". Without someone to release them in the event of an emergency or medical crisis, self-bondage can lead to severe and permanent physical damage.

Bondec in combination with asphyxiationself-bondage can be lethal to its practitioners. Many people feel that bondage must be "rough and tough", as seen in many images of bondage erotica, but this is not always true. In so-called "soft bondage", the active partner can simply hold the restrained partner's hands together with their own hands, handcuff the restrained partner, or simply order the restrained partner not to move their hands, without using any physical restraint.

This latter case, called "verbal bondage", appeals to many people and is far more common than most people [ who?

A popular variant of bondage considers the artistic and aesthetic part of tying a person up more than the transfer of power and control, or the sexual pleasure. This type of bondage is called "shibari" or "kinbaku", and comes originally from Japanese bondage. Rope bondage is perhaps the best known and most used form of bondage.

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Sometimes these positions are dangerous or cannot be maintained for more than a few minutes i. In many cases they cannot be "acted out" with good results and are only for extremely physically fit and very experienced BDSM participants.

Especially in highly artistic Japanese bondage, years of experience of bondage is required to avoid the risks. Self-bondage carries a higher risk, particularly because it violates an important principle of bondage safety; to never leave a bound person alone. For the feeling of being tied up to be as authentic as possible, practitioners of self-bondage can use time-limit clocks, freeze their keys in blocks of ice, or use self-invented devices, in order to temporarily abandon power over their own restraint and freedom called "tunnel play".

Without someone to release them in the event of an emergency or medical crisis, self-bondage can lead to severe and permanent physical damage. Especially in combination with asphyxiation , self-bondage can be lethal to its practitioners. Many people feel that bondage must be "rough and tough", as seen in many images of bondage erotica, but this is not always true. In so-called "soft bondage", the active partner can simply hold the restrained partner's hands together with their own hands, handcuff the restrained partner, or simply order the restrained partner not to move their hands, without using any physical restraint.

This latter case, called "verbal bondage", appeals to many people and is far more common than most people [ who? A popular variant of bondage considers the artistic and aesthetic part of tying a person up more than the transfer of power and control, or the sexual pleasure.

This type of bondage is called "shibari" or "kinbaku", and comes originally from Japanese bondage. Rope bondage is perhaps the best known and most used form of bondage. There are several forms of rope bondage. In the American-European bondage scene, specific terms have developed for different kinds of bondage. The terms most often used in the European bondage subculture are in English, although some bondage term come from the Japanese language, such as kata bondage position or musubime bondage knot.

Examples of simple bondage techniques are the "spread eagle", where the restrained partner's each limb is tied to a different corner of a bed, [19] or the " hogtie ", where the restrained partner's hands and feet are both tied, and the ropes tying these are connected with each other, holding the restrained partner in a bent position.

A "crotch rope" is sometimes used, where a rope is passed between the partner's legs, applying pressure to the genitals. Just about any material that can be used to hinder or restrain a person's movement can be used in bondage. Bondage can be performed with everyday objects or specially designed BDSM equipment.

In less BDSM-oriented vanilla bondage everyday objects, such as silk scarves, stockings, neckties and belts are often used. Soft objects such as these can also be used for binding in front of the restrained partner's eyes, temporarily blinding them.

Rope is very often used in bondage as a material for physical restraint. In the western world, almost any kind of rope can be used for bondage, such as cotton, artificial fibers, or other materials.

However, in Japanese bondage shibari , only ropes made of hemp or jute are usually used. In Japanese bondage, the rope is usually well prepared before it can be used, so that it becomes soft and easily bendable. Between bondage sessions, the rope is cleaned by washing it. Regardless of the type of rope used for bondage, temporary superficial damage to the skin can appear where the rope has applied pressure, this is called "rope burns".

Metal especially steel is often used in bondage, most often in handcuffs , legcuffs , thumbcuffs , hooks and chains, and is often combined with other materials. Apart from the durability of metal and the flexibility of metal items, metal appeals to many people because of its tough image and the sheer toughness of being bound by metal items.

Metal is practically immune to struggling and escape. In BDSM erotica, metal chains are often associated with historical torture and prison scenarios. Apart from pure metal chains, cable ties are also often used as a quick way to tie someone up securely. These ties can leave burn marks on the skin when applied too tightly, and because of their durability and resistance to struggling, must be handled carefully when applied to joints or being left in place for a longer time.

Products made of leather are often used in bondage because of their flexibility and resistance to tearing. Because leather is easy to acquire, care for and work upon, it is one of the most popular materials for home-made bondage items.

Many people have a fetish for leather, latex and polish and use these materials in connection with bondage, for example for cuffs, belts or neck bands. There are special bondage skirts, trousers or sacks made of these materials, as well as clothing and equipment for BDSM role play that can be used in connection with bondage.

For example, harnesses are used in pony play , but would not be used without the corresponding role play. Some people regard bondage to be erotically stimulating or sexually arousing. Bondage features in some sexual fantasy scenarios.

Bondage themes are present in some erotica and pornography. Bondage pornography for heterosexual men almost overwhelmingly depicts bound women, rather than bound men, despite the fact that one of the most common fantasies in both sexes is being bound. Bondage fantasies often involve dressing in a role outfit. Typical outfits for the submissive person invoke common icons of passivity or sexual innocence e.

In a similar respect, the dominant person's attire often reflect images of power, control, and extreme discipline a Nazi officer, military officer, police or prison warden uniform. Some people who have been put into long-term deep bondage mummification have reported having out-of-the-body experiences and there are some who desire to be put in deep bondage for this reason.

A New Age form of bondage is being immersed a sensory deprivation tank for the express purpose of having an out-of-the-body experience as was practiced while on ketamine by John C. Other popular scenarios for bondage in art was that of Angelica from the 15th century epic poem Orlando Innamorato , which is itself a continuation of the romantic epic saga Orlando Furioso , which is similar to that of Andromeda in that the heroine is offered as a sacrifice to the sea gods; and the damsel in distress theme.

The damsel in distress theme was also used in the motion picture serial The Perils of Pauline , which found Pearl White in mortal danger on a weekly basis. Depictions of bondage in art may be erotic, in which case they follow a heteronormative model and tend to depict a young woman in danger and fear.

Bizarre was a fetish and bondage magazine published between — by bondage artist John Willie. It included drawings and photographs using professional models in bondage or sadomasochistic scenes. Sweet Gwendoline was the main female character in his works, published largely in the s and 60's, and possibly the most famous bondage icon after Bettie Page. Bondage received a positive if brief treatment in The Joy of Sex , a mainstream sex manual popular in the s.

The publication of Madonna 's book, Sex , which included photographs of bound nudes, did a great deal to improve public awareness of the acceptance of bondage. By the s, references to bondage could be found in mainstream prime-time television series such as Buffy the Vampire Slayer , where equipment such as handcuffs or collars and concepts such as the safeword were included as a matter of course.

Campbell 's books [26] and the artwork of Robert Bishop. The Fifty Shades trilogy by E. James was first published in ebook in and subsequently went on to become a bestseller. The print edition of the first book, Fifty Shades of Grey was published in and became the fastest selling bestseller, breaking multiple sales records. Suspension bondage at Wave-Gotik-Treffen music festival, Germany, Human furniture : a woman is serving as a lamp stand, a tray , as well as a part of a wooden decorative item.

Fetish art showing suspension bondage. Shibari : rope bondage as an art form. A rubber hooded and bit-gagged male wearing a PVC clothing straitjacket is made immobile by being chained to a St. Andrew's cross. Erotic performance of suspension bondage at Exxxotica , U. Woman bound outdoor using a traditional technique of tying hands above the head. She is wearing latex fetish shoes. From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. It is not to be confused with sexual slavery.

This article needs additional citations for verification. Please help improve this article by adding citations to reliable sources. Unsourced material may be challenged and removed. Play media. Suspension bondage : women being hung upside down using adequate precautions.

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In other words, participants continued to report elevated sexual satisfaction 48 hours after a single act of sex. But participants who reported relatively high levels of sexual afterglow seemed to fare better relative to their peers, reporting higher initial marital satisfaction and less steep declines in satisfaction across the first 4 to 6 months of marriage.

The same pattern of effects emerged in the two independent studies, providing robust evidence for sexual afterglow, Meltzer and colleagues note. Together, the findings suggest that sex is linked with relationship quality over time through the lingering effects of sexual satisfaction. Co-authors on the study include Anastasia Makhanova, Lindsey L. Hicks, Juliana E. French, and James K. Bradbury University of California, Los Angeles.

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Sharing personal information brings people closer together. Verified by Psychology Today. Dating and Mating. Does engaging in intercourse make you feel closer to your partner? You're not alone. There are scientific reasons why sex especially good sex makes you feel closer to your lover. The neuropeptide oxytocin reduces stress and increases feelings of trust Denes, Sex example, couples staying together over a six-month period sex higher baseline levels of oxytocin than those who bonded broken up within that same period Schneiderman et bonded.

Men in monogamous relationships who were administered oxytocin intranasally bonded a greater distance between themselves and an attractive female confederate. Oxytocin helps to make you feel closer to your partner and keep bonded closer too.

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Learn other relationship benefits to the female orgasm here. These women also tended to say more positive things about their relationships in their post-sex disclosures to their lovers. The physical act of sex may not even sex necessary to increase self-disclosure, merely being subliminally exposed to sex sexual stimuli encouraged more intimate self-discluosure among bonded of the opposite sex Birnbaum et al.

Sharing secrets has been shown to increase intimacy Aron et al. Meltzer and colleagues define sexual bondrd as "enhanced sexual satisfaction that lingers following sexual activity. In essence, some couples stay sexually satisfied long after intercourse has ended. In some couples, their sexual satisfaction lasts for up to two bonded days. Furthermore, the longer their bonded afterglow lasted, the more marital satisfaction couples reported over time.

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Stoessel and colleagues found that the anterior cingulate cortex, the insula, and the posterior cingulate cortex were active bonded individuals viewed photographs of their loved ones, as well as erotic photographs of strangers. The common neural pathways to sexual desire and love lead researchers to suggest that love grows out of the pleasant feelings of sexual desire and fulfillment Cacioppo et al.

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